Oftentimes people find their way to the spirit of healing through Indigenous ceremonies especially here on Turtle Island. We believe this to be a good thing as more and more these ceremonies are open indigenous and non-indigenous alike and these ceremonies can offer powerful opportunities for healing.
Without awareness or the presence of strong elders in their lives however, folks find that there are many unexpected challenges along this path that they are surprised to discover and then find themselves in the same circumstance from which they turned to these ceremonies in the first place or worse. Even with awareness and having the support of elders there are still bound to be moments of beauty as well as trauma (current and/or historical).
Without being grounded, humbled and compassionate an individual who choses this path may find that not only do they remain stuck in their patterns they also begin to cause harm to others especially those indigenous elders, visionaries, healers, medicine people as well as whole groups and cultures.
Some of the specific ways that this harm shows up are:
- Claiming “ownership” of ceremonies that are not of your cultural lineage
- Failing to understand the difference between ‘owning’ and ‘honoring’
- Ceremonial tourism: Dipping your toe in the proverbial pool of ceremony while not uplifting the elders and supporting the real work that exists not ‘In’ the ceremony but ‘in between’ ceremonies where the real integration lives
- Failing to connect to one’s own ancestral lineage and claiming some indigenous lineage due to proximity to an indigenous culture
In this discussion we hope to share stories of our lived experience about why we feel it is important for folks of ALL walks of life to get on the pathway to healing as well as how to be on this journey with integrity and start to integrate the teachings in your life in a Good Way! We also want to share how strongly we feel that it’s essential to find your way back to your own ancestors. Finally we want to share some ways that we and others have begun making this journey that will expose you to some trauma but that ultimately we may find the beauty in the balance.